Apology to the "Trophy Wife"

I am lucky to be able to stay home with my new baby while my husband provides for us but while I was a working stiff I noticed "The Trophy Wife". Meaning while I was out during the day I would see other women who were noticeable, the were thin, they had their hair done nice, and their makeup on. More often then not they were pushing a stroller or with their children and I would think to myself "well sure if I didn't have to work I could look like that too". Wow was I wrong, I did not give these women the credit they deserved. I hardly have time to brush my teeth it seems let alone get to the gym. You don't realize how much time an infant takes. I have to get the housework done, take a shower, get myself dressed, and do any personal stuff during his naps because between the playtime, bottle feedings, diaper changes and effort it takes to get him to take a nap I am just plain out of time. Even though during any given tantrum I am ready to put him in daycare I feel so blessed to be able to be with him daily and watch as he grows before my eyes and I would not trade that for anything. So I guess what I am saying is I'm Sorry! I am sorry I did not give you Trophy Wives the credit you deserve, you get it all done and you look good doing it!